They say every person you meet is going to teach you a
lesson – good or bad – for he would not only leave his impression on you, but
much beyond that an impact which would somewhere, even if a bit, change the way
you see the world.
The change, no matter how unwelcoming, would appear superficial,
if you wouldn’t let it sink in, and sneak away without even letting you know. But
there are going to be a few disheartening ones. You would not even want to turn
back the pages of your life, would instead skip those chapters, so you don’t end
up chewing over the things that happened, were said or got done. Even if you
do, it would only match churning of some tasteless cud in your mind you would merely
want to spit off.
People – they have that kind of impact on you, and how! I
have heard this is apparently the most talked about topic around the globe. People.
We have the power to transfer our vibes onto others, the magnetic aura we bear
has an immense power to reverse all positivity into absolute negativity or vice
versa. Our vibes, in a way, speak out our mind for us. So, you would surely get
to know if people hate you inside even if they never say a word regarding this
on your face.
Ever wondered how wonderful it would be, if we, having
understood how getting in touch with people affects us psychologically,
emotionally and socially, learn the art of detachment? First rule, however, of
detachment game would be never going back to the same phase of your life, shuffling
Rubik’s cube, testing out perms and combos while pondering on ifs and buts. A
stage of complete cut off would initially seem tough, but that’s all in how you
cajole your mind into thinking about other more interesting stuff.
If you’re lucky, there will be moments when all the
negative elements around you would voluntarily buzz off. Stop for a moment to
thank them all, for the Satan inside them has finally spared you off its wrath.
The ones who are nothing but pile on’s could be shown, very politely, the way
to the exit through your actions. You never know, your vibes might as well knock
the socks off their negatives.
Detaching would never come easy, for your mind would
always want to hop off into the negative mode, thinking how alone/lonely it
feels because of the people who didn’t care, but, on a brighter side,
detachment would always open new doors of fresher possibilities for you,
leading you into a brighter, independent path where you would find yourself
happier in absence of all such creeps.
