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This
was one legendary milestone crossed inadvertently, and the episode is, now,
graved in my mind forever for having taken the step, despite the circumstances
that there were. 2016 has been one hell of a year and as it slowly comes to an
end, the adventure seems to be quadrupling. I forgive God for being tipsy while
writing these chapters of my life, but he kept me sane all this while, so
that’s a reason enough for not going entirely ungrateful.
Irrespective
of the reasons, I confess I accepted a work offer, registered my attendance the
first day and resigned the next. There’s a reason why they say learn from an
experienced and not from an oldie! I am here to share the capsules of my wisdom
thus acquired so you don’t repeat what I did wrong. Moreover, there is no
feeling of remorse for having taken the step that I did, so yay! It is still a
positive sign.
Choose your place of work wisely: You’re going to be
giving around 40% of your entire day to this place of work for the coming many
years, so you better be sure if you really want to do this.
The atmosphere matters more than the
actual work: Work atmosphere is a primary factor that determines your productivity.
Therefore, do not compromise on the quality of the atmosphere where you’d
obviously try to give the best of your abilities.
The vibes: Trust me, they work wonders if they
start working in favor of you. It works quite strongly in my case, so I kind of
blindfoldedly give full marks to what vibes tell me about any person, place or
circumstance. The first impression, the first notion or that sensation that
runs through you when you set your first foot in your workplace should actually
determine whether you should continue spending any more time there.
The scope to grow: There’s nothing wrong in
thinking more about yourself more than you do about the organization you work
for. Any place of work you choose must guarantee a scope of honing your skills,
becoming a better professional and leaving your mark in the bigger picture. The
organization, too, thinks of you as a propelling tool to become bigger and
better and you doing the same is no crime.
3 Ps: Thanks to my husband for giving
this piece of valuable information to me, for this solves all the major
confusions for me regarding choosing from job offers with just a simple
mathematics. Place, Position and Package – if any two of these factors better your stand in the
market from where you currently are, you must give that offer a hug. Place
means the brand; position, obviously refers to the designation you’re offered
and package needs no definition. Therefore, a simple mathematics and voila! You
know your next move.
I
would say it’s better to wait for the right opportunity than to jump on to
anything that comes your way. I agree desperate circumstances call for
desperate measures and that’s why it is better to clear your stand while you
are still in a job. There are times when we are bereft of any good offers and
we seriously start to doubt all our knowledge and expertise, but I would still
suggest to take it easy. Things will eventually fall in place and all that you
need to do meanwhile is keep preparing for the time whenever ‘that’ opportunity
is going to knock at your door. Stay positive and never let your identity bleed
away with the challenges you face. Stay strong and keep that trust intact!