Sunday, June 26, 2011

Do you have a bosom buddy?

The aspect that would drive the next paragraphs would be ‘mysterious deaths’. I know we in India are a bit held back when it comes to talking on this grievous subject (death), but we need to comprehend that at times there is no substitute to what is necessary.

Ideate this, more than 1,000,000,000 people out there inside Indian periphery and yet we find it tough to discover even a single person who could perfectly match to our tunes. Ever tried to figure out what could be the reason?

I’ll help you in unriddling why along with highlighting the fatal consequences this rising endemic has brought along with it. I would call it a social phobia, and trust me, there’s nothing to brag about being a stone introvert.

A modern professional would start his day plugging earphones in his ears, would keep his eyes glued to the computer screen throughout the day and would leave for home once again earplugged. By the time he would reach his home, he is left with no energy to conclude even his daily chores, put aside actually sharing with his family the whole day’s occurrences. So, not just to blame one’s true skin, the general schedule of people today is also constantly driving them into insularity.

The other day while reading newspaper, I noticed few news stating mysterious deaths of people who were so living in a society, yet not were a part of it. They lacked any close friend who could put forward any substantial reason for their deaths. There have been numerous cases like this, e.g., Parveen Babi and millions of others who commit suicide every year. I lost one of the acquaintances this way and I so wish I was her close friend because I believe I could have saved her. There might be many incidents happening in our day-to-day life, but it is utmost essential to pour them down your close friend, no matter who that person is.

Your bosom buddy can be anyone – your daughter, boyfriend, spouse, granny, next doors or even your blog. This would not only make you feel light every day having thrown all the secrets down your bosom buddy but would also make you feel cheerful and light, as that person would obviously listen to your experiences, thereby mixing them with insightful inputs of his wisdom and experience and would make you grow and learn with every happening in your life.

In addition, that person would be thorough with the stuff happening in your life, keep a watch on your actions and to an extent, control them as well. Put it this way, if, god forbids, you end up being a part of any mishap tomorrow, your close friend can convey to the world the possible reasons of the outcome, keeping in mind the series of events taking place in your past.

So, my sincere request to everyone who checks this post, do make a close friend or a friend close, and if you already have one, give him/her a polar bear hug.

It’s indeed lovely to have friends, experience them!

16 comments:

AKS said...

So u r back after a long wait
Nyways nice post as usualSo u r back after a long wait
Nyways nice post as usual

AKS said...

So u r back after a long wait
Nyways nice post as usual

Cheena Chopra said...

Hi AKS, thanks a ton! :)

AKS said...

Its seems like one more shuffle is imminent
Let's see which jokers turn up this time :D
Keep writing

Cheena Chopra said...

Thank you for your comments AKS, but I did not get the term 'jokers' in your last comment. Does this word refer to the blogs I write?

AKS said...

shuffle = cabinet reshuffle
jokers = ministers

Cheena Chopra said...

Oh! Excuse my ignorance. I get it now. Ya, u bet! let see who gets what. It's anyway a dice game.

AKS said...

So what your dice says
Cos as of yet he is saying
"Q7: What about the Cabinet reshuffle?
Answer: That is a work in progress.
Q8: Major or minor?
Answer: I cannot tell you. I cannot predict."

I don't know what he means by I çannot predict
Is he shuffling a deck n can't predict which card turns up

Nyways m I bothering u coz girlz usually stay clear of topicz like these
N I m lovin it

Cheena Chopra said...

No, no! Even I am loving updating my IQ with your insightful inputs...
Besides, I feel our the great PM is a rickety person who would have performed better had he restrained himself to finance and not stepped out to handle a nation.

AKS said...

Have u heard the Grover case verdict
Law is truly an ass. You kill a person, buy a butcher's knife, chop the body into pieces... and the courts decide it's not murder.

Cheena Chopra said...

I know! Shocking, ya! You know what, in school when we were taught about constitution, we concluded that there is basically one pillar and that is centre (legislature) and rest everything (judiciary, executive and media) breathe under its toe. Today, the story says, "Hell ya! you've got your pocket brimming with tinkling gold coins... come and run the nation"!
Tragic but true! Money speaks.

AKS said...

have u got google+ invitation

Cheena Chopra said...

Hey, not yet! Have u?

Cheena Chopra said...

Absolutely second your point n besides, the fact that they've been playing hide n seek with all other necessary bills like Lokpal bill, reservation for women in parliament bill, n issues like money hid in Swiss banks, etc. reflects nothing but absence of any significant degrees in their resumes...
Hey, dont you think that's enough of cribbing in a day? :)

Anonymous said...

Nice one... Keep it up !!!

Cheena Chopra said...

Thanks buddy!

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