So now, the
world identifies me as somebody’s wife; the feeling? It’s inexplicable. I am
sure every couple, who in their dating period feels seriously for each other,
dreams of this transition but seldom they are able to reach this stage. I am one
of the few chosen ones who could successfully hit the goal, without facing any opposition
at all.
My say on the
feeling of this transition from being boyfriend-girlfriend to husband-wife is
IT IS NEVER THE SAME. Dating is way different from living a whole, life-ful of relationship. Living with
each other 24x7 not only gives way to serious revelations about the other
person, but also opens up another chapter of love – sustenance.
The only privilege
‘pre-marriage-dating’ blesses you with is that you don’t listen to the other
person as a just-brought-home cat, who doesn’t know how to act feeling a new air around.
You freely meow, purr or even pounce, as if it was your own house and your own people J
The first hit
I got was when I woke up, startled, seeing him sleeping on the same bed as
mine! J Yes - when we got to sleep for some 3
odd hours after I reached my “new” home at 5 AM. My first-hand experience on dating,
love and marriage is that friendship transcends all hardships you face as a
couple and brings a lot of peace and calmness back home. So, you know, great food, romance, organized life, adjustments all take a back seat.
Here’s wishing all the best to all the couples travelling on the same boat. Bon Voyage!
